Reciprocal...

Hello guyz... Its been a while. Hope you all are having a wonderful time. So I want to discuss about reciprocal. Its neccessary in our lives. I mean, we all expect our favour to be returned in one way or the other. Even if we claim that our actions are simply selfless but sometimes it hurts when the other party doesn't reciprocate. Yeah, most times it causes conflict, thus we should try to understand that it doesn't happen always whether we like it or not, everybody doesn't have the same mindset. The person you did the favour may not really remember. So, it will be much better for us if we dont let these teeny-tiny detail get in the way of our relationships. 

Also, sometimes we also expect a person to do something when we ask them just because we had previously done it for them. I absolutely detest this, I mean, just because you fufilled my request doesn't mean that I will do yours, because Its possible that I am in a situation that I cant do it. It makes me unsettled when a person says "You didn't do this for me upon I did same for you" To be honest, Its just not fair. If you know that you are expecting something in return, then just don't do it. 

Having explained this, we should look at the two sides. We all expect a favour back, thats true but we should not start making fuss and confronting, just because it didn't happen cos we all have reasons for doing so. I hope this helps us in our everyday lives.. . 

Still yours... 

Las B...