On Motherhood and parenting

You know people say - "You're still in your 20s, you don't know enough about the divine hormones and shit."

Yes, I'm not disputing it. But It's important to know you have options. Biological parenting isn't by force

Kids are a lot of work. These ones I'm staying with here - I'm not exactly feeling the maternal affection supposedly innate in women.

The other arguement is - "you won't have anyone take care of you in your old age."

Well newsflash, almost everyone in old people's home have kids and grandkids. But the kids have their goddamn life as well.

I envision - 

Reading. Mentor young women. Talking about A.I and shit in events. Binge on a show.

Rinse and repeat. I've hardly quite Thought of kids in the equation save that I can have two max - then possibly hysterectomy.

If I'm childless and my body eventually gives in to old age, I'd have stashed enough money for paying for my old people's home after a fulfilled life.

I may end up having kids. But knowing I do have an option - it's freedom.

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