On Jealousy and Envy

 I'd come across about 4 of my mutuals on twitter getting their technical articles published and I was envious as fuck! So jealous that I actually muted the word "article" on twitter 

Note that I'd learnt about envy being longing/craving for something for yourself, but I was still jealous regardless.

So last Saturday I said - "Chinenye, stop whining and write some damn articles if you think you're a good writer."

So I wrote the first draft of not 1, but 2 articles that weekend and felt really satisfied. I also started reaching out to the publications I'd seen my mutuals publish on. And I actually got a response from 1 and it's a rejection email on halting publications from guest authors at the moment. But surprisingly, I don't feel too bad about the rejection. Cos better a rejection email than feeling like shit and inaction.

Had I kept bemoaning, I wouldn't have done shit. Like just keep feeling jealous and they'll keep writing and getting published.

Moral lesson? What you're jealous of is something you want for yourself. Best way to proceed is to take a find a means to ahold of it. Either by reaching out to those you're jealous of and asking the steps they took to achieve it. Or finding another method to get same thing. Jealousy == Desire.


PS - Excerpt from my article. It's quite technical but I'm still reaching out to other publications for guest authorship 

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