My Birthday (Throwback)
If there are things I'm reminiscing over the past few years, it's how much I've grown. After reading "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a fuck", my views have narrowed a huge way: From giving fucks about basically everything and every ideology to curbing it quite a bit, even down to totally ignoring the things I would have given fucks about. Maybe cos I don't want to waste time arguing to my favour, or also Dale Carnegie's advice in his work, "That arguments doesn't change people's views but rather puts them in a defensive position, to defend what they believe in". It's true, we all want to be right, but I've learnt, still learning that I ain't right. That my intuition of being right doesn't make the other person any less wrong. I've also come to the realization that I've gone from seeking validation or acting like the majority sucks. I remember when I switched my typing in long form to short form just because many we